How to choose Dildos & Dongs  

A dildo or dong is a non-vibrating toy used for vaginal or anal penetration & clitoral stroking.  Dildos are probably the oldest sex toy around as dildos have been found from ancient civilizations in China, India, & Greece. We'll explore the types available & their use.

Dildos come in a variety of shapes, sizes, textures, & colors. Some look like a penis & others are smooth or textured. You have all the control with a dildo as you perform the movements you like at the pace you want.  Dildos can be used to stroke the labia & clitoris along with inserting inside your vagina or anus.  There are so many choices you may want different ones for different feelings & moods.

What if you’ve decided that you prefer the non vibrating sex toy as opposed to the vibrator? After all, penises do not vibrate, do they? So, how can you be sure that you’re choosing the right dildo for you? As with vibrators, dildos come in all different shapes, sizes and materials and it can be extremely difficult to find the right one. So, we at toys2love have put together this simple guide to ensure you find the perfect dildo for your body and needs.

Dildos are made from a lot of different materials. Basically there are porous & non-porous materials. Porous materials, like latex rubber, jelly, Cyberskin, elastomers, absorb so you need to be sure to clean them thoroughly to prevent bacteria & germs from building up in the absorbent material. Using a condom can help reduce absorbing any fluids & make clean up easier.  Non-porous materials like silicone, acrylic, or glass are smooth & do not have pores for germs to hide. Clean up is easier & you can wash them with very hot water or in the dish washer.  Using a condom with a non-porous dildo make clean up even easier.  Plus sex toys cleaners add extra protection & cleanliness.  All materials are safe, just take appropriate precautions.  Porous materials will absorb lubricant more easily so you will need to use lube more often.  Non-porous material holds the lube much longer since it doesn't absorb the lube.

Glass dong may be outlined for uttermost beauty and exceptional characteristics Pyrex glass holds. Whilst some persons have hypersensitiveness on latex and other medical rubber wares, glass dong is hypoallergenic and that implicates that if you are sensible on other fabrics, it can be the best solution.  When you buy a dildo made of glass you grant yourself an eventuality to rave an impressive and enormously lasting sex toy. This may operate as a coolest gift for your dear as soon as you can place it just on your bedside desk to supplement visual attraction to your bedchamber.

Realistic These dildos are generally made from the mould of a real penis to really enhance that realistic experience. They are often made with materials that resemble real skin in many ways, which include colour, feel and look. They could even be modelled on famous porn stars for the ultimate fantasy.  

Traditional or Penis shaped These dildos strongly resemble a penis and can be bright in colour. They often just follow the basic lines of a penis, ranging from small to quite large. 

Anal These dildos are designed for safe and fun anal penetration. They come with a wider base to make sure that they stay in place ensuring a worry free and pleasurable experience. 

Double ended Double Ended Dildos are extra long and pliable, with a ‘head’ at both ends for various uses. Use on your own or with a partner. 

Strap on These strap-on toys are dildos built to fit into a harness or to be used on their own. The harnesses are adjustable to accommodate varying sizes. They are ideal for use for ladies who wish to penetrate their partner or males who love the idea of double penetration.

G-spot Dildos These dildos are designed to hit your G-spot and it is possible to warm them up or cool them down for different, erotic sensations. Try: Crystal Blue Wave, Njoy Pure Wand and Fun Wand.   Speciality Dildos ‘Over-large, the extra-long, the massively thick, bounce on dildos, hand shaped dildos, hand and arm shaped dildos, horse dongs and dog dongs.’ 

Dildos range from small 3-4 " in length to gigantic 16" single dong & more (16" is our longest dong we offer).  There are also 18" double dongs for double penetration or sharing with a partner.  Diameter can be from thin 3/4 " to a thick 2" in diameter.  There is a dildo for any desired feeling & action.

Some are smooth, others have a "head" at the tip.  Then there are life-like dildos with the appearance & shape of a penis. Still others can be textured with swirls & bumps for added sensation when stroking your vulva & clitoris & thrusting in & out of your vagina.   Some have balls at the base for a firm grip & for that feeling of balls slapping against your clitoris.  Others have a suction cup which can be secured to the floor or a wall for hands-free penetration.  Then there are those with a broad base for use with a harness for a woman to strap on & use with her partner (male or female).

As you can probably tell, you can use a dildo in any manner that feels good for you. You can start by adding lubricant to the dildo & gentle stoke your vulva, moving up to the clitoris while enjoying that sensation for awhile.  Then slowly move the dildo inside your vagina.  You can thrust at your own speed, twist it around, & experiment with different angles of penetration.  A dildo with a suction cup can be fastened to the floor & you can ride it to your heart's content.  Stick it on a bedpost or shower wall & have it enter you from behind. 

Any dildo can be use anally though most people start with a small, narrow dildo for initial use.  Use LOTS of anal lube to ensure that you can receive the dildo easily.  More on anal sex play in another article. DO NOT use silicone lubricants with silicone dildos or dongs as it will break down the silicone of the dildo & ruin your toy.  There are thicker, water based lubricants for use & you can cover the dildo or dong wth a condom for easier clean up.

Dildos can be used by couples, too.  You can show your partner what you like with your dildo & they can pleasure you with your dildo.  They can stroke you while giving you oral sex, play with your clitoris while pleasuring you, & use special dildos for stimulating your G spot.  Watch & ask your partner if what you're doing feels good as some people can get carried away & thrust too hard. Some couple have used a dildo for double penetration sex with the man in her vagina & a dildo penetrating the anus (or vise versa).  Double the pleasure without having a third party involved.

Guys, using a dildo on your partner can be great for her when you are in your recovery phase of sex. (After you cuddle & hold each other for a while, of course!)  While you are waiting for your next erection, you can still be pleasuring her in numerous ways. Some guys enjoy the pleasure of receiving anal sex with a dildo with their partner. 

Do not use the same dildo for anal & vaginal sex. You can use a condom between but it's suggested to keep anal & vaginal dildos separate. Sharing with a partner should also be done with a condom, removing it & placing a new condom on when using from one person to the other.

Look at the variety of dildos we have available.  Remember to always use plenty of water based lubrication.  Alone, do what feels good for you & enjoy the time with your toy.  With your partner, you have a wide variety of sensual, erotic ways to play together with your dildo. CLICK HERE to see our variety of dildos & dongs.